Not holding back. Meghan Markle‘s “Archetypes” podcast features interviews with other famous women, but the Duchess of Sussex has also revealed plenty about herself.
During the podcast’s inaugural episode in August 2022, the Suits alum discussed the concept of ambition with her friend Serena Williams. “I don’t remember ever personally feeling the negative connotation behind the word ‘ambitious’ until I started dating my now-husband, [Prince Harry],” the former Tig blogger explained. “Apparently, ambition is a terrible, terrible thing — for a woman, that is.”
The Bench author has also offered occasional glimpses into her life in “The Firm” before she and the Duke of Sussex stepped down as senior working royals in January 2020. (They made their final official appearance two months later.)
Meghan recounted a particularly harrowing moment during the first episode of “Archetypes,” recalling an incident that happened during her and Harry’s 2019 tour of Southern Africa. The pair embarked on the trip with their son Archie, who was then 4 months old.
“The moment we landed, we had to drop him off at this housing unit that they had had us staying in,” the former actress explained. “He was going to get ready to go down for his nap.”
The Archewell cofounder and the former military pilot “immediately” left for a royal engagement, but when it was over, they got some scary news. “We finish the engagement, we get in the car and they say there’s been a fire at the residence,” Meghan recalled. “There’s been a fire in the baby’s room.”
Archie wasn’t in the nursery at the time of the fire, but his parents — who welcomed daughter Lili in June 2021 — were still shaken up by the incident. “I was like, ‘Can you just tell people what happened?’” Meghan asked. “We still had to leave him and go do another official engagement.”
In the second episode of “Archetypes,” the Northwestern University alum revealed that her guest Mariah Carey was one of her childhood heroes, in part because the singer had a similar background. “You were so formative for me,” Meghan explained. “[When] you came onto the scene, I was like, ‘Oh, my gosh. Someone … someone kind of looks like me.'”
The duchess was so enthralled by the “Dreamlover” music video that she tried to recreate Carey’s outfit at home. “I remember going, ‘I need to get jean shorts. Oh, I need to get jean shorts,'” Meghan recalled. “I need to have that little checkered, tied-up shirt.”
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During the "Archetypes" premiere episode in August 2022, Meghan claimed that she and Harry had to continue with their royal engagements after there was a fire in Archie's nursery. “As a mother, you go, ‘Oh, my God, what?’ Everyone’s in tears, everyone’s shaken,” she recalled. “And what do we have to do? Go out and do another official engagement? I said, ‘This doesn’t make any sense.'” Meghan wanted to tell organizers of their next event what had happened, but she was seemingly told that wasn't an option. “The focus ends up being on how it looks instead of how it feels," she said. "And even though we were being moved into another place afterwards, we still had to leave him and go do another official engagement.” Shutterstock
In the "Duality of Diva" episode in August 2022, Meghan said that her romance with Harry changed the way she thought about her race. “I think for us, it’s very different because we’re light-skinned,” she told Carey. “You’re not treated as a Black woman. You’re not treated as a white woman. You sort of fit in between. If there’s any time in my life that it’s been more focused on my race, it’s only once I started dating my husband. Then I started to understand what it was like to be treated like a Black woman. Because up until then, I had been treated like a mixed woman. And things really shifted.” Facundo Arrizabalaga/EPA-EFE/Shutterstock
When Carey called Meghan a "diva" during her August 2022 appearance on the podcast, the "Archetypes" host admitted that she initially interpreted her guest's remark as a diss. "You give us diva moments sometimes, Meghan," the pop star said. "It's the visual." Reflecting on the moment later in the episode, Meghan said: "You couldn't see me, obviously, but I started to sweat a little bit. ... I just kept thinking, in that moment, was my girl crush coming to a quick demise? Does she actually not see me? So, she must have felt my nervous laughter, and you all would’ve heard it too. And she jumped right in to make sure I was crystal clear. When she said 'diva,' she was talking about the way that I dress, the posture, the clothing, the quote-unquote fabulousness as she sees it. She meant diva as a compliment. But I heard it as a dig." Shutterstock
Meghan opened up about getting help when her mental health was at its "worst" while speaking about the connotations of the word "crazy" with guests Constance Wu, Jenny Slate and Deepika Padukone. "I mean, I think at my worst point, being finally connected to someone that [helped]," she recalled during the October 11 episode, adding that Harry. Was the one who referred her to a professional. "She didn't know I was even calling her. She was checking out at the grocery store. ... [I was saying] I need help and she could hear the dire state that I was in." Meghan added: "But I think it's [important] for all of us to be really honest about what it is that [we] need and to not be afraid to make peace with that, to ask for it." Matt Dunham/AP/Shutterstock
Before landing the role of Rachel Zane on Suits, Markle worked as a briefcase model on the long-running game show for one season. "My experience on the show – which included holding said briefcase on stage, alongside 25 other women doing the same – was ... for me, fascinating," she said during an October 2022 episode of the "Archetypes" podcast. Explaining that she had just come from working at the U.S. Embassy in Argentina, where she was "being valued specifically for my brain," the duchess struggled with being valued solely for her looks on the show. "When I look back at that time, I'll never forget this one detail. ... There was a woman who ran the show and she'd be there backstage and I can still hear her ... she'd go, 'Markle, suck it in! Markle, suck it in!'" Markle recalled. "And by the way, I was surrounded by smart women on that stage with me, but that wasn't the focus of why we were there. I would end up leaving with this pit in my stomach knowing that I was so much more than what was being objectified on the stage. ... I didn't like being forced to be all looks and little substance, and that's how it felt for me at the time — being reduced to this specific archetype." Inside Edition/NBC/YouTube
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